Father is Uncle Jasper’s brother and not an easy person to explain. He is a handsome, great tall thing, and a mixture of Dante and horses, dogs, humility, sport, and autocracy, but he is most adorable and has a divine sense of humour. Aunt Constance says he is a mystic, but I don’t know what she means. I have never been able to understand how he came to be a parson at all, for every inch of him is soldier. He has got a temper, too, only he doesn’t lose it when most people lose theirs. He’s dreadfully difficult about some things. He is so fastidious about clothes, especially mine. I think his eyes must magnify like a shaving-glass. He sees holes which are perfectly invisible to me. There is in me a certain carelessness about the things that show (I _must_ be perfect underneath), but a button off my shoe doesn’t really worry me unless the shoe comes off. A jag in my tweeds leaves me cold, and the moral aspect of a hole in my glove doesn’t weigh with me at all. Besides, as I said to father one day when I was being rowed,—
’If I have a _hole_ in my skirt it would appear as if I had just torn it, but if I have a darn it would look like premeditated poverty.’
My brother Ross is going into the army. He’s awfully like father if you leave out Dante and the humility part and shove in a perpetual bullying of his sister. But he’s not a mystic. Oh, dear, no! He loves this world with all its pomps and horses, adores its vanities, its coloured socks and handkerchiefs and ties. He is a radiant person with a great capacity for friendship. He is nice to every one until a chap spills things down his clothes, and then my brother slowly freezes and curls up and is ’done with him.’
He and I do not always dwell together in harmony and love. We ’fight’ most horribly at times, but I adore him really, though I wouldn’t let him know it. It would be frightfully bad for him. I run my male things on the truest form of kindness lines. They always loathe it.
And mother? Oh, I can’t write about her at all, even though it’s so long since she died; she was half Irish and so pretty and so gay. She fell off a step ladder one day when she was gathering roses, and Ross found her unconscious, and that night she died. I couldn’t understand why a broken arm should kill her till daddy explained that the hope of another little son went with her, too. Father’s eyes have never looked the same since; there is still a hurt look in them.